I Tried HRT. Here Is What Happened and the Path I Chose Instead

I Tried HRT. Here Is What Happened and the Path I Chose Instead

I get asked about hormone replacement therapy more than almost anything else.

Women want to know what I tried. What worked. What did not.

They want to know if I am pro-HRT or anti-HRT. They want me to pick a side so they can figure out which side they should be on.

I am not going to pick a side.

I am going to tell you the truth. All of it. What happened to me, what I learned from treating over 20,000 women, and the path I chose for my own body.

This is the most personal article I have ever written.

My Story: The Season That Broke Me

I had my daughter at 41.

And my cycle never came back.

Let me say that again, because when I tell women this, I watch their faces change.

I was post-partum and in menopause at the same time.

There was no gradual transition. No gentle perimenopause. No warning signs I could prepare for.

One season ended and a completely different one began, all at once.

The hot flashes came first. Then the sleep disappeared. Then the mood swings that made me feel like a stranger in my own skin.

(If you just nodded at that last one, keep reading. This article is for you.)

I was a physical therapist who had treated thousands of women. I knew the body inside and out.

And I could not figure out what was happening to mine.

So I did what most women do. I went looking for answers.

I Tried HRT. It Worked. And Then It Stopped.

I want to be upfront about this.

The conversation about hormone replacement therapy has become so polarized that women feel like they have to pick a side before they have even tried anything.

I did not pick a side. I tried it.

I tried HRT, and for a while, it worked.

I felt better. Some of the symptoms eased. I thought I had found my answer.

And then it stopped working.

I tried the fads. I tried what the latest experts were recommending.

I tried bioidentical hormones, and I will be honest with you: I had some good results. But not great.

Something was still off. The relief was partial. The foundation was missing.

That is when it hit me.

I was putting a Band-Aid on myself and not supporting my systems and my lifestyle.

I was asking hormones to do the job that my entire body needed to participate in.

It was not one hormone dropping. It was one cascade. Everything shifting at once.

My estrogen. My progesterone. My cortisol. My inflammation.

My sleep cycle feeding into my stress cycle feeding into my mood.

And no single pill was going to fix a cascade.

The Changing Conversation on HRT

I want to be clear: I am not anti-HRT. This is not that kind of article.

The conversation around hormone therapy has shifted significantly in recent years.

The Women's Health Initiative study in the early 2000s raised concerns about cancer and cardiovascular disease. The headlines were dramatic. 

Millions of women stopped taking hormones almost overnight.

But researchers took a closer look. 

Many participants were significantly older when they began therapy. 

The study primarily used synthetic hormones rather than bioidentical hormones. Those compounds behave differently in the body.

The updated perspective is more nuanced. 

Healthy women who begin HRT near menopause may have lower risks than previously thought. 

But none of this means HRT is risk-free. 

Benefits and risks depend on the individual woman, the type of hormones used, and how they are delivered.

Every woman deserves to have that conversation with a knowledgeable practitioner who knows her story.

Why I Chose a Different Path

After my experience with HRT and bioidentical hormones, I went back to what I know. Research. Botanicals. My own body.

Hormones do not act in isolation. When the body stops producing certain hormones, there is almost always a deeper story behind that shift.

My approach became: support the whole system. 

Not just one hormone. 

Not just one symptom.

Without that foundation, adding hormones can feel like turning up the volume on a broken radio. The signal gets louder. 

But the underlying problem has not been addressed.

So I built a protocol. Piece by piece. Based on what I had studied, what I had used with my patients, and what my own body was telling me it needed.

What I Actually Do Every Day

This is my real protocol. Not a generic list from a wellness blog. 

These are the things I do for my own body, in my own life, that changed how I moved through menopause.

I lift weights. And I do cardio. Consistently.

This is not optional for me. This is medicine.

The research on resistance training and hormones in women over 40 is clear.

Weight training stimulates growth hormone production, which naturally declines during menopause. 

It improves how the body processes insulin, which directly affects energy, mood, and weight regulation during hormonal transitions.

There is also strong evidence that strength training supports healthy estrogen metabolism and helps maintain the lean muscle mass that hormonal shifts are actively trying to take away from you.

I have seen this in my clinical practice with over 20,000 women.

The women who maintain a strength training practice through perimenopause and menopause report fewer symptoms, better sleep, and more emotional stability than women who rely on cardio alone.

I do both. 

But if I had to choose one, I would choose the weights.

I changed how I eat. And it changed everything.

This one took longer than expected to figure out.

For years, I thought I was eating well. Salads. Smoothies.   

The things you are told are healthy.

But when I started researching what my body actually needed during this hormonal transition, I realized I was not getting nearly enough protein.

When I shifted to a high-protein, anti-inflammatory diet, my hormonal symptoms got noticeably better.

The brain fog started lifting. My sleep improved. My energy stopped crashing at 2pm.

Here is why that matters: protein is the raw material your body needs to build and repair muscle, produce hormones, and maintain the collagen your tissues are losing every single year after 30.

Most women over 40 are eating half the protein their bodies need. 

And their hormones are paying for it.

I cut the foods that were fueling inflammation. 

The processed sugars. 

The seed oils. 

The things that were keeping my body in a constant state of low-grade fire.

When I reduced the inflammation and gave my body the protein it needed, I started feeling like myself again. Not overnight. But steadily. Unmistakably.

That is one of the reasons I created  Total Fem Collagen.

I needed a complete protein with all five types of collagen, fortified with  L-Tryptophan for sleep and mood support. Eleven grams per scoop.

I take it every day because my muscles, joints, skin, and pelvic floor all depend on it.

I use cold laser therapy. On myself and on my clients.

I have used cold laser (also called low-level laser therapy) in my clinical practice for over two decades. It supports tissue repair, reduces inflammation, and helps with pain.

What most people do not know is that reducing chronic inflammation is one of the most important things you can do for hormone balance. 

When the body is stuck in an inflammatory cycle, it diverts resources from hormone production to damage control.

I use infrared therapy. Biomat and sauna.

Infrared heat works at a cellular level. It supports circulation, helps release stored toxins, and promotes deep relaxation.

When your nervous system is constantly running in survival mode (and for many women in menopause, it is), your body puts hormone production on the back burner.

Infrared therapy helps shift that. I use both a Biomat and infrared sauna regularly.

I practice sound healing for nervous system rebalancing and vagal toning.

This is the piece most people skip. And it might be the most important one.

Your vagus nerve is the master regulator of your parasympathetic nervous system. 

When your vagus nerve is functioning well, your body can shift out of fight-or-flight and into rest, repair, and hormone production.

Sound healing is one of the most effective ways I have found to tone the vagus nerve. It works at a level that meditation alone sometimes cannot reach.

Every month in my private Pelvic Wellness Community, we do a sound healing that takes us from frazzled to calm, cool, and collected/ 

I take my own supplements. Every single day.

I am not just the founder of these formulas. I am their first customer.

I take Total Fem Hormone Balance daily. I take Total Fem Beautiful Brain because your brain health and your hormonal health are the same conversation.

I built these products because nothing on the market gave me what I needed. 

I went to the research, I went to the botanicals I had used with my patients for twenty years, and I created what I wished someone had given me during my hardest season.

Menopause is not a decline. It is recalibration. And your body already knows what to do when it gets the right support.

What I Built After 20 Years of Searching

After treating over 20,000 women and going through my own hormonal season, I went back to the botanicals and the research I trusted.

And I built something.

Total Fem Hormone Balance delivers six plant-based botanicals (Sage Leaf, Alfalfa, Wild Yam, Evening Primrose, Clary Sage, and Sarsaparilla Root) that work with your body's natural phytoestrogen pathways.

They do not replace your hormones. 

They support the systems that are already there, waiting for the right input.

This is not anti-HRT. This is a different path. 

I designed Total Fem Hormone Balance to be compatible with HRT, so whether you are on hormone therapy or not, these botanicals work with your body's own intelligence instead of around it.

Here is the thing I wish someone had told me twenty years ago: your doctor may be treating your hot flashes, your sleep, your mood, your brain fog, your weight, and your energy as six separate problems. 

They are not six problems. 

They are one cascade.

And when you support that cascade at the root, everything downstream starts to shift.

That is exactly why I created Total Fem Hormone Balance. I take it every single day. I built it for myself first, because nothing else gave me what I needed.

Women in my community tell me the same thing over and over:

"I've been taking this for months now, and my body and mood seem to be better. I can finally sleep through the night without sweats. My mind is clearer, and the brain fog has lifted." ~ Jennifer, 54, Verified Customer

"I've been using Hormone Balance for years. It keeps my mood steady and my hot flashes under control." ~ Linda, 62, Verified Customer

That is what happens when you stop chasing six separate symptoms and start supporting the single cascade behind them all.

Six plant-based botanicals supporting six pathways in your body, combined with the movement, the nutrition, the recovery, and the nervous system work I talked about above? 

That is a foundation. And a foundation changes everything.

Check out Total Fem Hormone Balance here.

This week, you can save 15% with code HARMONY, or subscribe and save 20% so you never run out and never lose the ground you are starting to gain. 

Plus, you get my 60-day money-back guarantee. 

Every penny back if you do not feel the difference. You risk nothing. Your body keeps everything.

Don't let another sleepless night, another foggy morning, or another mood swing you cannot explain convince you that this is just how it is now. It does not have to be.

Take the first step towards supporting your whole cascade here.


References:

"The Efficacy of Strength Exercises for Reducing the Symptoms of Menopause: A Systematic Review." https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC9864448/

"The Efficacy of Strength Exercises for Reducing the Symptoms of Menopause: A Systematic Review." https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC9864448/

"Hormonal responses to endurance and resistance exercise in females aged 19-69 years." https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/11909881/

"Effect of programmed exercise on insulin sensitivity in postmenopausal women: systematic review and meta-analysis of RCTs." https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/28654627/

"Proposed Mechanisms of Photobiomodulation or Low-Level Light Therapy." https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC5215870/

"The efficacy of low-level laser therapy in alleviating genitourinary syndrome of menopause and stress urinary incontinence." https://www.frontiersin.org/journals/medicine/articles/10.3389/fmed.2025.1574646/full

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"Vagus Nerve as Modulator of the Brain-Gut Axis in Psychiatric and Inflammatory Disorders." https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC5859128/

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About ISA HERRERA, MSPT, CSCS

About ISA HERRERA, MSPT, CSCS

Isa Herrera, MSPT, CSCS is a New York City-based holistic women's pelvic floor specialist, author of 5 books on pelvic health, including the international best seller Female Pelvic Alchemy, and the ground-breaking self-help book, Ending Female Pain, A Woman's Manual. She has dedicated her career to advancing awareness of pelvic floor conditions so that more people can find relief from this silent epidemic that affects over 30 million people in the US alone. Ms. Herrera holds a BA in Psychology and Biology from Fordham University and also a Masters in Physical Therapy from Hunter College.

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